Advice

Anonymous asked: I'm in grade 9 and I haven't made that many friends, there are so many partys, I and I haven't been invited to any I didn't think I was that much of a loser. but I don't know what to do, I hate grade 9 :(

Don’t worry about grade 9. I remember it, it was just a big mess, but I swear everything will change, grade 9 and 10 were the partying years. Don’t worry if your not invited, there is nothing wrong with you! You will really enjoy grade 11 and 12, people just do there own thing, you don’t have to worry about what you look like everyday, nobody cares. so just try and get by these next two years. It will get better, we believe in you darling xxx

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Anonymous asked: I get made fun of so much for so many reasons and i feel like i shouldnt be alive, i think everyone hates me, i suffer from major deppression and i dont wan t to feel like this anymore.

you may be going through a rough time right now but dont EVER think about killing yourself, I dont know you but you have millions of reasons to be here on this earth! Trust me things will get better soon. Maybe if you tell someone what is going on in your life right now, if you have a really close friend or even your parents just anyone you can trust, you will feel so much better! Even if messaging us makes you feel better then continue talking to us, we enjoy helping! xoxo

Anonymous asked: Over the past 6 months or so I've been single and I've met lots of great guys and been on dates but none of them intrigue me enough to keep talking to them. Some of them are REALLY nice an some of them are REALLY attractive but either way I feel somethings missing and I have absolutely no connection with them. I really do want a boyfriend. Are my expectations too high? People look at me like im crazy when they find out that I turned down some of these guys. What is wrong with me?

Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with you, everybody goes through this at a point in time. Now, the guys you have been meeting might have been cute but their personalities might have changed your perspective on them and that could be why there’s no connection. You should look for someone with the same interests as you.  Also, your expectations aren’t too high. There is someone out there for everyone and when you find him, you will know. hope this helps! xoxo

Anonymous asked: today my dad came on to me, then my boyfriend found out and dumped me cause i cheated on him, and now i wanna kill myself, i just don't know what to do

you need to talk to somebody about what your dad did to you, and if your boyfriend dumped you just because of that than he wasn’t worth your time from the beginning.xoxo

Anonymous asked: im madly in love with my bf and im 13 years old and he is 14 (both turning a yr older in a few months) and we are very close in that kinda way. we always make out and feel each other up and we want to go to the next level but my parents cant stand him so they dont know im seeing him and i dont know what to do? they cant accept that i love him so idk wat to do because it makes seeing him harder than anything and the chance of going "there" even harder :/

sorry for the late response,
but we think your parents should just accept who you choose to see, if you really like him and he treats you well than keep seeing him, maybe sit down with your parents and see why they disagree with you seeing him and you can settle the problem out with them. Tell your parents the truth, tell them how much he means to you and how much it hurts you to keep him a secret. I hope this helped.xoxo

Anonymous asked: i'm going to high school soon and i don't know any one. i just moved to a new state and i'm so afraid. the school i'm going to is a private school and i've only gone to one school my whole life.. it was a public school. if i go to this one i think i'm going to be so much different ! help!

you shouldn’t be scared, highschool is fun and there are many ways to make new friends! you just need to find people you connect best with, but be careful with who you choose as well. you could also join after school activities, and talk to the people you share classes with! And don’t think that your going to be the only one that doesn’t know anyone, you’ve just got to take the time to look for them.xoxo

Anonymous asked: I'm 5'1, and I'm 206 pounds, I'm very selfconsious and my bestfriend called me fat, i dont know what to do, maybe ill just starve myself...

if your best friend called you fat,  while knowing your very selfconsious about your weight, then your best friend isn’t much of a bestfriend! you should probably confront her about it and if they don’t seem to care, then you should probably go find yourself a better bestfriend that is worth your time! Also you could maybe keep in mind some healthy ways to loose weight and never ever starve yourself! xoxo

Anonymous asked: My boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I'm 15, I'm scared I will lose my friends and everyone will think differently of me, I'm not even sure if i want to do it. I need help!

If you don’t feel comfortable about doing it than you shouldn’t.
you should consult your friends about this, and if you did decide to do it and you lost friends you know they weren’t your true friends anyways. Your boyfriend can wait if he really likes you if you aren’t ready, if hes the guy for you than  he will understand that you’re just not ready.xoxo